Monogamous relationships get a bad rap these days — people say it is unnatural, impossible, outdated and stifling. However, it’s not that bad. Some people enjoy being in monogamous relationships and they believe that it’s the only way to be together.
Unfortunately, some people can’t take that lightly. It is important to know that all people are different and what’s good for one person is not necessary good for another person. So if you don’t believe in monogamy, you shouldn’t judge couples with long-term relationships.
In this article, we would like to show you twelve weird things people usually say to people in long-term relationships. Please, never tell these things to someone in a committed relationship. Are you interested? Scroll down to read this article right now.
#1. “How do you keep the fire alive?” When you’re in a truly great relationship, you don’t have to keep the fire alive — it’s always there.
#2. “You are very young! You need to explore the world and see what it can offer you!” What do you mean? I’ve found a person I truly love and we can explore the world together.
#3. “How’s the ball and chain doing?” Instead of rolling your eyes you may answer “We are fine, thanks for asking. We love each other and I can’t tell you how happy we are.
#4. “Monogamous couples are just couples who are comfortable with each other.” It is okay to feel comfortable in relationships, and that’s the way it should be. But that doesn’t change the fact that we are in love.
#5. “I don’t believe in monogamous relationships.” That’s your right to do.
#6. “It’s so stupid that you have no one else to compare your relationship to. How can you tell that your partner is the one?” You will understand it once you will find the right person. You will know for sure.
#7. “Doesn’t it get dull?” No, I’m perfectly fine spending time with my boyfriend. We are having amazing time together.
#8. “You can’t be in a long-term relationship if you don’t date with other people first.” Wow, I can’t believe I hear this. Just because the first man I got with ended up being the only man I wanted to get with doesn’t mean that it’s wrong.
#9. “Please, just be my wingwoman!” No no no. I don’t ask you to go with me on my dates, because you will be bored. The same story with being wingwoman, it is boring for me.
#10. “How do you know? You’ve only had relationships with one partner.” Yes, I haven’t date with any other guys, because I don’t need another man to be happy. I’m in a healthy, loving relationship and I think you deserve to find a man who will treat you right.
#11. “You must be thinking about other cute boys most of the time.” I have good vision and I can see many beautiful men around, but that’s doesn’t mean I want to tear off my clothes at the sight of a handsome guy who isn’t my partner.
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#12. “Do you really think you are the one for him?” Yes, I really do. We trust each other and I like being in such a happy relationship.